Thursday, January 11, 2007

Sex - Women - Marriage

I was chatting with a colleague over lunch. The conversation veered towards his principles and ideas about women. He has a very interesting theory for this:

All women can be categorized into 3 brackets depending on their sexual experience:
1. Sluts (more than 3)
2. Experienced Women (1 or 2)
3. Virgin (do I need to explain this)

A woman should only marry a guy in the same bracket for marital bliss. Note that men are not categorized since all men are opportunistic.

Assuming an arranged marriage setting, when he meets a girl, he will explain to her which category he falls in and request her to reject his proposal if she did not belong to the same category. He would not judge her based on her reply.

I couldn't believe that this could be done practically. The whole idea of going up to a girl and asking her is she is a slut (no matter how you put it across) sounds fraught with danger. The word "slut" maybe the most disrespectful word that you can say to a woman.

He has actually discussed this theory with women although they supposedly beat his ass for it.

I cannot figure out why sex could be the most important factor for a marriage's success. I agree that it is very important and the lack of it or mismatch between the individual's sexual appetites could lead to problems.

Any man would gladly have a fling with a more experienced woman but would feel insecure to marry her.

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